Every Relationship Faces Challenges.
Not Every Relationship Needs to End.
Feeling like a stranger to yourself. Walking on eggshells.
Torn between two unbearable choices: Stay and keep hurting, or leave and lose everything.
You’ve tried. You’ve tried so hard. But no matter what you do, it feels like it’s never enough.
You Never Thought You’d End Up Here
The fights don’t stop. Or maybe, it’s the silence that’s worse.
Your partner is right there, yet somehow, they feel a million miles away.
You tell yourself, “This can’t be what love is supposed to feel like.”
And yet—you’re still here.
Right now, it might feel impossible to imagine a version of your relationship where you don’t feel like this.
Where your partner sees you, hears you, understands you.
Where you can finally exhale and feel safe again.
Your Relationship Doesn’t Have to Stay This Way
It might feel impossible—but that doesn’t mean it is.
Through Therapy, You Can Begin to Hear Each Other In Ways You Never Have Before
You can start to break the cycle of fighting and distance.
You can begin to understand why this is happening—and how to stop it.
You can get back to each other.
It won’t be easy.
But if you both show up—if you’re willing to try—it is possible… more than possible, even.
You don’t have to do this alone.
Let’s take the first step together.
I help couples rebuild trust, break painful cycles, and reconnect in ways they never thought possible. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)—the gold standard for couples counseling—I guide partners to truly see, hear, and understand each other again.
Before becoming a therapist, I spent over a decade at a meditation center searching for deeper connection. I learned that real intimacy isn’t about avoiding conflict—it’s about moving through it together. That led me to EFT, where I found a proven path to not just repair relationships but make them stronger than ever.
I’ve worked with countless couples who felt hopeless—many who thought therapy wouldn’t work for them. Again and again, I’ve seen that when partners feel truly heard, everything shifts. If you're ready to take that first step, I’m here to help.
Hi, I’m Nicholas—And I Help Couples Turn Painful Cycles into Lasting Connection
Right now, communication feels impossible. You feel misunderstood, unheard, invisible.
Therapy is where that starts to change.
Here’s what we’ll do together:
What You Can Expect from Couples Therapy
Break the Cycle of Distance & Resentment
Rebuild Trust
Identify the Real Issues:
Create New Patterns of Connection
You’ll learn how to reach for each other in a way that feels safe.
Whether it’s been broken by criticism, betrayal, or years of disconnection, trust can be repaired.
It’s not just about the fights—it’s about what’s underneath them.
Where once there was anger, fear, or silence, we’ll create something different.
I can’t promise it will be easy.
But I can promise that if you’re both willing to do the work, you’ll come away with a deeper understanding of yourself, your partner, and your relationship.
And that?
That changes everything.
It’s the gold standard for couples therapy – Over 30 years of research proves its effectiveness.
Why Emotionally Focused Therapy?
It doesn’t just treat the symptoms—it heals the core wounds causing conflict.
It helps you make sense of your emotions so you can finally understand each other in ways you never have before.
This isn’t about quick fixes.
It’s about real, lasting change.
If you’re ready to take the first step toward healing, clarity, and connection—I’m here to help.
Right now, your relationship feels tense, distant, and exhausting. But it doesn’t have to stay this way.
In this free call, we’ll talk about what’s really going on, what you need, and how therapy can help.
You’ll walk away with clarity, hope, and a plan forward—whether we work together or not.
Let’s take the first step toward healing—together.
